10) Free Lunch Every
Tuesday at the WMST Brown Bags. Free food, free knowledge, good people…
What’s not to like?
9) I can read @feministtswift and think it’s
absolutely hilarious. “I don’t know about you / But I’m feeling 22 / cents
underpaid on the dollar” (C’mon, that is creative.)
8) I can feel
justified in shamelessly procrastinating on Jezebel.
Sometimes I’ll come across great feminist articles and sometimes I’ll find
things like this gem.
All completely worth it.
7) I get to talk
about sex. Let’s be honest. We all love to talk about sex. Whether taking
the Yes Means Yes Seminar, sharing a bottle of wine among friends, or watching
awkward sexual encounters on sit coms, we are fascinated by sex. Not that I
necessarily divulge my own experiences (or lack thereof) when I talk about sex,
but having people around willing to talk about sex and sexuality in a
constructive and free way is pretty nice.
6) I feel justified
speaking up in class. For a long time I didn’t think it was a problem that
I never participated in class. I was completely content sitting in the back of
the classroom and listening to what everyone else had to say. But, I came to
realize that I kept on hearing the same voices, perspectives, and opinions.
Finally I started raising my hand, asking the difficult questions, and voicing
different opinions. Not that I always have something worthwhile to say, but
expressing a different viewpoint is actually important, especially when it’s a
feminist viewpoint. So, speak up! You may not always be right, but at least you
put yourself out there. You actually learn the most when you have to defend
something you believe.
5) I have one more
reason to stop critiquing my own body. I’m not the first person to admit
that I have problems with the way I think my body looks. Some days I feel fat.
Other days I feel beautiful. What being a feminist has done for me is realize
that there are different ideals of beauty (as corny as that sounds, it’s true).
While I’m still working on accepting my body for what it is, feminism is one
more voice in my head on the team “love you for who you are.”
4) There is a sense
of solidarity among feminists. “Oh wait, you’re a feminist?! Me too!” Ok,
this may be a little contrived, but the idea is there. Sharing a common belief and
value is at least a conversation starter. And although feminists don’t always
agree on all issues or perspectives, at least we can all agree that we value
human rights and equality for all. It’s a starting point and a great thing to
have in common with feminists all around the world.
3) I get to meet
amazing people. You know how college is supposed to be the best four years
of your life? I think this is true for me not because I can go out and drink
like a fish whenever I want (not that I enjoy that much anyways), but because
of all the amazing people I interact with on a daily basis. Specifically, the
people in the Center for Women’s Studies are awesome. I have learned so much
from people with different life stories and perspectives that have pushed me to
become a better person and feminist.
2) I have a goal in
life. Pick up any self-help book and the first step is to create a list of
goals. While coming up with some and adhering to them can sometimes be a
painful process, they are also incredibly effective. Goals are helpful because
they help you become someone you actually want to be. I want to be someone who
advocates for human rights and equality. Having my feminist lens and working
through feminist theory (both in an academic setting and in my actual life)
gives me a sense of purpose in my life. And, while currently in the midst of
figuring out what I want to do when I graduate (eek!) at least I have some
direction of what I’m interested in and would like to pursue.
1) I have the
satisfaction of knowing I’m right. But seriously though. I dare you to come
up with a good reason why people should be treated differently and have
different opportunities available to them based on their gender, sex, socio-economic
status, race, ethnicity, age, ability, sexual orientation, religion, etc. It’s
hard to justify the violation of human rights.
To sum things up: being a feminist is awesome. I dare you to
try it.
- Michelle Van Veen '14
Before taking WMST 202, I would not consider myself a feminist. I cannot give you a direct reason for why I was not a true feminist, especially since I supported women's right completely. It must be, if I had to take a guess, a product of the negative connotation associated with feminism. Society has doomed it as something "strange" - something that could potentially alienate you and deem you as "abnormal."
ReplyDeleteThis post sheds new light on what it means to be a feminist. Finally, our society has become ever so slightly more accepting of people who speak out vehemently for women's rights and privileges. It is posts like these that will turn the negative connotation of feminism around and help young women like myself who previously viewed feminists as abnormal with more respect and honor. By pointing out the positive attributes of feminism, including justification for speaking out loud one's beliefs and no longer needing to critique their bodies, women who follow feminist ideals will lead a much happier life. As Michelle Van Veen put it and how I can now attest to, "being a feminist is awesome." It is my hope that other women at Colgate and beyond can take these ten reasons, resonate with them, and make the powerful decision to become a feminist themselves.